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Uusi vuosi (ja remppa, osa 2)

Joulusta selvittiin hengissä, vaikka välillä peräti 19 hengen yhtäaikainen läsnäolo meinasi vähän ahdistaa henkeä. Rakkaita kaikki, mutta omat sosiaaliset resurssit ovat olleet vähissä viime aikoina. Kaikin puolin mukava joulu joka tapauksessa, ja kotiinpaluun jälkeen vietimme yhden lepopäivän (no melkein, koska verokortin ajan tasalle saattaminen oli pakko tehdä ennen vuoden vaihdetta), jonka jälkeen lepo onkin ollut vähissä. Vuokrasimme rautakaupasta työmaakäyttöön soveltuvan imurin, jolla imuroimme alkuhankaluuksien* jälkeen kaikki kämpän isommat pinnat, eli käytännössä lattiat ja kaappien päälliset. Ja sitten ne myös pestiin kaikkialta muualta paitsi itse remonttihuoneesta, koska aika ja luonnonvalo loppuivat kesken. Betonipölyä on toki asunnossa edelleen, mutta huomattavasti vähemmän kuin aiemmin. Ensi viikon lauantaina on tarkoitus pestä remonttihuoneen katto, seinät, ikkunat ja lattiat, ja varmaan myös kämpän muut ikkunat, jos vaan aika antaa myöden. Tältä huoneessa näyttää juuri nyt:

Huone ovelta päin

Huone ovelta päin

Katto ovelta päin

Katto ovelta päin

Suljettu oviaukko

Suljettu oviaukko

Eilen vietimme neljättä vuosipäiväämme käymällä elokuvissa katsomassa erinomaisen Arrivalin ja hakemalla aiemmin tilatut sushit suosikkiravintolastamme kotipakettiin. Sitten puuhattiin olohuoneen ikkunoihin vihdoin ja viimein kauan kaivatut verhot, jotka tuovat kodikkuutta ja ennen kaikkea yksityisyyttä alakertaan. Siinä menikin hulppeat kolmisen tuntia ja pari poranterää, koska ilmeisesti ihan kaikki betoniseinät täällä on raudoitettu, mikä saa aikaan mukavan jännityselementin aina kun niihin porataan reikiä. Operaation jälkeen avattiin pullo kuohuvaa ja vallattiin sohva, missä loppuilta sujuikin sangen mukavasti muun maailman paukutellessa raketteja jossain verhojen tuolla puolen.

Tänään vietetään viimeistä “loma”päivää ennen paluuta arkeen, ja ajattelin purkaa joulukoristeet pois jos vain millään jaksan, kun nekin ovat kaikki betonipölyssä, joten ne pitää myös siivota ennen pois pakkaamista. Ja sitten on se yksi pöytäliina, jonka sotkin steariinilla pari viikkoa sitten enkä jaksanut tehdä asialle mitään… Ai, ja vessat pitäisi pestä. Onneksi illalla päästään valmiiden lihapatojen ääreen, sillä aina vuoden ensimmäisenä päivänä anoppilassa juhlitaan perheporukalla. Luvassa ostereita, hummeria ja lasikaupalla kuohuvaa. Kyllä, kiitos!

*Imuria noutaessaan M kysyi ihan varta vasten pölypussista ja sai vastaukseksi, että se on imurin sisällä ja pitää vain tyhjentää ennen imurin palauttamista. Miesparka raahasi imurin tarvikkeineen kotiin bussilla (meillä ei ole omaa autoa), ja täällä huomasimme, ettei sen sisällä mitään pussia ollut. Puhelinsoitto rautakauppaan paljasti, että pussi olisi pitänyt ostaa erikseen noudon yhteydessä, mutta ilmeisesti kohdalle osunut asiakaspalvelija ei sitä tiennyt. Ei muuta kuin pussin ostoon pyörällä, ja lopulta vuokra-aikaa olikin jäljellä enää nelisen tuntia sinä vaiheessa kun pääsimme imuroimaan… Vähän korpesi.

All the Amusement

I have a long, serious post waiting in the wings for the right time to finish it, but yesterday deserves a post of its own. I was feeling pretty threadbare by the time Thursday came along, but it sure kickstarted my four-day mini-holiday in the most perfect way possible. We had decided that if the weather was favourable, we’d spend the day at Tivoli Friheden, since we got season cards (for free entry and some discounts) and one-time-use wristbands that give access to all the rides as a Christmas present from M’s parents. The day dawned with sun shining from a clear sky, and as all weather forecasts pretty much said that the day would be beautiful aside for some small showers in the afternoon, we headed to the fairground as soon as it opened.

None of the attractions were open quite yet, so we took a walk around the whole park to see what they had and what we definitely wanted to try. I knew from my visit to the Finnish tivoli last summer that my stomach doesn’t handle the wild rides quite as well as it used to, so I’d have to pace myself, and so the plan was to do one fast thing at a time and then do slower things until I’d feel up for another fast one, and this was fine with M. We chose Cobra as the first ride, and while it was way too short, we both enjoyed it immensely. It reminded me a great deal of the Demon in Copenhagen’s Tivoli, which I fell completely in love with on my visit there a few years ago. (Demon was better, but still.) After that we headed to the Haunted House, where we got to shoot up some zombies, and M got the second best score of the day. (My gun was broken, so it refused to shoot 3/4 of the time, which was really sad.)

On our walk around the park, M had remarked that on his last visit there some 10 years ago, he’d loved the Pegasus the most, so that’s where we headed next. It was one of the two attractions I was pretty sure would mess up my stomach because it rotates in all directions, but it also looked like a blast, so I definitely wanted to try it. The ride turned out to be absolutely squeal-worthy, but also perhaps just a tad too long, and by the time we got our feet back on the ground, I felt like a break was in order. Amusingly the plan was to hit the Ferris Wheel afterwards to calm us down, but that turned out to be a huge mistake. By the time we got to the top of the wheel, I felt more nauseous than I had after either of the fast rides, and M felt the same! I don’t quite know what caused it, but I think it was the fact that the little cabin we sat in kept swinging back and forth just a little bit, and somehow that was really causing motion sickness. Defeated by the Ferris Wheel… Didn’t see that coming!

By the time we got off the ride, we’d been in the park for some 1,5 hours and I felt like maybe some food was in order as that might settle my stomach a bit, so we went to eat chicken paninis for lunch. Generally amusement park food is overpriced and not particularly good quality, but the paninis were actually really big and tasty, so while the price was high, we at least didn’t feel cheated. The break did us good, too, so once we were done with eating, we were ready for some more amusement. We both still felt that we weren’t feeling quite as stable as when we started in the morning, so we decided to start slow, and hit the Illusions Factory. Which in hindsight wasn’t the best choice, as it’s all about optical illusions and such to mess with your head, and some of it was pretty effective, too. Nonetheless, fun was had, and once we were through, we felt up to giving the Wave Swinger a try. After some initial difficulties (including M banging me in the head with a metal bar and almost sliding off his side of the chair), we enjoyed it a lot, although it was one more thing to make our heads spin.

It was time to stay at ground level for a bit, so we headed for the fairly long queue for the Bumper Cars, as I figured the waiting time would be enough for my head to stop spinning. There was a short discussion about whether we should sit in the same car, but we both wanted the wheel (of course), so separate cars it was! I had a lot of fun chasing M around the arena, and he got a few good bumps in, too. Afterwards we figured we were up for another fast ride, so it was clearly time for the roller coaster. While we were queuing, we noticed there were some clouds gathering in the sky, and by the time The Hurricane took off, the first drops started falling. We enjoyed the ride, but afterwards it was time to find some shelter, as it started to rain a little harder.

We found a café that still had seats left, and opted for some Belgian waffles with ice cream and chocolate sauce with our coffee. The price was again pretty extravagant, but once we got the waffles, we had to admit they were worth it. They were warm, delicious and quite filling, and the ice cream on top was heaped so high I was seriously worried I wouldn’t be able to finish mine. By the time we were done with them, we were both so full it was pretty evident we wouldn’t be able to stomach another fast ride, and as it still kept raining, we decided to head home, all tired and happy.

The rest of the day was pretty lazy, and all in all I have to say it was just glorious. I felt more recharged than I have in weeks, and I still have three days left of my holiday! Today is all about cleaning the apartment and practicing for my upcoming Danish placement test, which is on Monday. Tomorrow we have some friends coming over, so I’m planning to bake pulla in the morning, and on Sunday I’m rather hoping we get to go and see the new Mad Max movie. Next week my dear friend S is coming to spend an extended weekend with us, which I’m really looking forward to, and we plan to watch the Eurovision Song Contest finale together, which I expect to be good fun.


I’ve thoroughly enjoyed the Danish spring so far. It all kicked off with a sudden realisation that there are these white, blooming trees everywhere in April even though nothing else had even leaves yet. We had a bunch of them just outside our living room window, and you could spot them all around the city. They dropped their flowers as suddenly as they got them, after which the first trees began sprouting green leaves, and little flowers began popping up here and there on the grassy spots. The weather has become steadily warmer since, and while it’s not quite summery yet, we’ve had a few days when sandals were definitely appropriate.

Spring, Chocolate Eggs, Music!

Like I mentioned in the previous post, this week has been insanely hectic. A part of it was the training of a new colleague at work while still trying to make the end-of-the-month project deadline, which meant I was more tired than usually after workdays. Add in the language course evenings and a couple of other lengthy errands I had to run during the week, and suddenly my days were very long indeed. M was gone the entirety of Monday and Tuesday, and the previous weekend didn’t include much together-time, either, since he was embroiled in a forum update project that took the entire weekend (and wasn’t even completely successful, so it will take even more time in the future). By Friday I was pretty much a wreck.

I decided early on in the week that the weekend would be all about relaxing, and what better way to start it than using the Christmas gift card for champagne brunch for two (from M’s uncle and aunt) in an Italian restaurant on a beautiful Saturday morning! The weather was sunny and gorgeous, so I wore a skirt and a pair of high heels to celebrate spring. The food was delightful, and we had a terrific time. Afterwards we shopped for some Easter eggs for next week, and while my collection isn’t nearly complete yet, we did make a few good discoveries. I fully plan to sample all the different chocolate/marzipan eggs they have here to see which ones I like the best.

The rest of the day went by with both of us lazing about. I played some Guild Wars 2, we watched last week’s episode of Vikings and later a movie (Whiplash). It was just what I needed to let go of the week. Today I might even consider doing something useful… I still have one or two days of work next week, but the rest of it is definitely off, and the language course is also on a break for a week and a half. I’m so looking forward to a little spring break!

In other, completely unrelated news, I’ve been listening to Von Hertzen Brothers’ new album New Day Rising on Spotify. I liked their first album quite a bit, but after that (and especially following one really unimpressive festival gig that left me completely cold) I sort of lost interest in the band altogether. I was really surprised to discover I like the new album a lot. For now it has completely replaced my other recent favourite (Say Lou Lou’s Lucid Dreaming), which continues my current trend of falling in love with female Nordic electro-pop artists for reasons that aren’t entirely clear to me, but hey, if it works.

Being Present

This week has gone by so fast. My cousin A was supposed to visit on Monday, but she got a nasty stomach bug on Sunday and couldn’t travel after all. We had made a restaurant reservation for Monday evening that we decided to keep even though she couldn’t make it. We figured it could be an impromptu date night, and I was quite looking forward to it all day. It turned out okay: food was good if not great, and we had the place mostly to ourselves, but something was off about the evening. It felt like M’s thoughts were elsewhere, and I just felt invisible. It left a bad taste in my mouth, and once we got home, I let myself get totally distracted by chatting with a friend online instead of spending time with M for about an hour, after which we proceeded to watch the latest episode of The Walking Dead as we had agreed earlier. The evening wasn’t a bad one by any means, but neither was it what we had expected.

I woke up insanely grumpy on Tuesday, and couldn’t really put my finger on it. It took me pretty much the whole day to figure it out, and once M came home from work, we finally took a moment to talk about it. I told him about having been disappointed by the restaurant portion of our “date night”, and he told me much the same about what came after. We both felt better afterwards, and decided to give it another go on Saturday.

The rest of the week until the weekend was exhausting, and on Friday evening I was so beat that I went to bed quite a bit earlier than normally and slept like the dead. Saturday, however, was perfect. Lots and lots of extremely good together-time, yummy Chinese food and a movie we both enjoyed. But the best part was, we were both there, present, focused on each other. Such a huge difference compared to Monday.

It’s so easy to get distracted by everyday things. We both have a lot of things going on that have relatively little to do with our relationship with each other, and we spend the majority of every day apart because of work, my language course, our hobbies, and our friends. Not to mention the occasional alone time we both require. It’s easy to accidentally bring that disconnect into our time together as well, but I think for us to stay happy together, we really need to try and not let that happen. Saturday was living proof of how incredibly good it can be when we succeed.

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